My Birthday is January 15th

This Wednesday is the day. Stop by and say hi. I’m a little down and could use some good cheer. The cheater’s concubine blames me for their problems, says he who should be castrated. He says she is jealous of me. He’s asked me to close my facebook and twitter accounts because my pictures cause her to spiral out of control. Sorry, but anyone who is jealous or whatever of me has to know I’m a quiet, shy, keep-to-myself girl who doesn’t like games and drama. My photos, my accounts, shouldn’t even be viewed by either of those two. Yet, I let it get to me and cry myself to sleep. Ugh. Anyway, karma seems to have avoided them. So, wish me well. Thank you.

Update: Sorry I haven’t commented/visited many blogs. Just been very down lately. I will catch up!


48 thoughts on “My Birthday is January 15th

  1. I know how you feel. It feels like they’re being rewarded for crap behavior and you’re being penalized for playing the game within the confines of rules and human decency. But from the sound of it, just do your thing. Because they sound like they suck at life 😉 Hope your birthday is awesome! Tweet and FaceBook more than usual so you know she’s freaking out! 😀

  2. “Happy Birthday – For Eva”
    Happy Birthday to you
    I’ve missed your poems
    because they are a part of you

    Happy Birthday dear one
    I hope that your special day
    is filled with love, surprises, and fun
    DRM 2014

    An early happy birthday Eva. =)

  3. I am so sorry you have been down. I wish nothing but new horizons and pleasant times ahead. I may not get a chance on the 15th so let me wish you a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY in advance. Be well and best wishes……


  4. Sorry to hear you’ve been down. Hoping that you gather the energy to do what you need to and manage to find enjoyment too.
    I don’t get people complaining about what someone else posts, and asking you to do something about it is just inappropriate. They can always choose not to see it or block a person, so it’s their choice, their decision to make. Maybe a bit of unfriend/unfollow-ing may be in order to give yourself some headspace. Sending you warmth and hugs 🙂

  5. I will be busy on the 15th so may not have the time to comment then, so allow me to say here and now, a very early Happy Birthday Ma’am! I wish you health and happiness on this day of yours and hope you are rewarded ever so gracefully with a plentiful load of gifts and parcels.
    On a side note, although it is no business of mine, I think it’s odd that you have been requested to remove your images – wouldn’t it be easier for your ex and his paramour to, I don’t know, not look at your content if it is so upsetting? Although I myself have never been in such an awkwardly peculiar situation, I can understand the pain that such must cause; to be blamed for actions that are no fault of your own. I hope a swift resolution removes this unnecessary burden from your shoulders.
    Take care Ma’am.

  6. Sorry to hear you’ve been down. I cannot believe he blames you for their problems; this just shows a weakness in their relationship and how much she envies you! Keep doing what you are doing because your amazing at it! Hope you have an amazing birthday filled with love and joy:) ~ Bashaer

  7. Ignore the twerps, Eva. Please, just ignore them. Karma surely is visitng them. They can’t sleep because they are always thinking of you and that is guilty conscience lashing them. I tell you just have patience and if you can pray for them. And then you will see how horrible things will be for them. And as much as possible, do not let them get at you.

    I wish you a lovely birthday in advance dear girl and a blessed and love and joy filled 2014. 🙂

  8. They are not your problem. I would leave them to themselves and get on with living and enjoying your life. Because from reading those comments you have far more friends and support than they do.

    I hope that your birthday is for a joy and happiness. Happy Birthday 😀

  9. Thank you, kiddo. Yes, it is odd and I don’t like that she is looking at my pictures. The cheater said she feels insecure about her looks. I can’t fathom why it should be my problem.
    You’re a really kind friend for taking the time to stop by.

  10. Thank you, Celestine. I have tried being patient. Now I am working on an ulcer over it. Best I can do is try to push the pain out of my head for a bit. Your birthday wishes for me mean a lot. Thank you, again.

  11. Hope you have a very Happy Birthday, and all those causing you trouble have a very crappy day! 😉

  12. Happy Birthday Eva! I agree with baldy, just ignore them and eventually, they will fade into oblivion. You have your wonderful kids to make you happy so count your Blessings, they are plentiful and boundless. We all appreciate your poetry because you are gifted and as you have said, it is a cathartic release so keep writing and always remember that you have a community of supporters that will always be here for you. I hope you have a wonderful birthday today so go enjoy it 🙂

  13. Happy birthday!!! I send you a good cheer and then another one because I am nice…keep your social network places, that will annoy them immensely which sounds like a decent birthday gift. I made you some toast but then I ate it because I was hungry and I wanted to tell you how nice your gift tasted.

  14. I just went with butter for I am not one of these out there toast fanatics. It was nice though and I stroked a cat afterwards so everyone is happy, if we include the cat that is.

  15. Those two remind me of something the dog leaves behind and one steps on, on a hot summer day!
    Belated best wishes on your birthday, my dear Eva. Here’s wishing you all the very best and a trunkfull of more wishes that you can cash in, when required 🙂

    Much luv and positive vibes heading your way from Singapore 🙂

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